I can see you reaching out for me
I crawl like a lamb that’s my destiny
When it’s over I’m back in my cave
Cause you’re my master and I’m your slave
5 Posts By Bryony
Lust or Slut?
I added a different icon for this site today. When I was done I took a step back and realized that it really could either be read as Lust or as Slut. I guess I will leave that up to personal preference. I am quite happy wit the way it turned out tho.
Isn’t she adorable?! I’ve love to set a little voodoo doll up on that L…or maybe the U. Yesssss. I will brb!
No luck with voodoo dolls. I did find these tho…
Kinds of Whores
I probably think way too much about this stuff. For whatever reason, I got it into my head that there were a great many different types of whores. And I hope I don’t have to keep saying this, but I don’t use the term “whore” in a negative way ’round here. Granted, people don’t usually use the word “whore” as a term of endearment, but I’ve been around a few who do. Aaanyway, I made a list of the whores that I could think of then went and found the best description I could find for each one. Enjoy.
Whore: A woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet. (Dictionary.com)
Man Whore/Manwhore: The male equivalent of “whore.”
Bar Whore: A stupid drunk ass bitch who goes to the bar strictly to spread her taco (Urbandictionary.com)
Wife Whore: wife who performs amazing sexual feats for her husband, receiving his undying love and admiration as compensation (Urbandictionary.com)
Cheating Whore: A slut that you once called your girlfriend who decides to sleep with someone else (Urbandictionary.com)
Cum Whore: Any person who genuinely enjoys the taste of cum, and likes to get as much of it as possible (Urbandictionary.com)
Road Whore: a girl that waits on the side of the road for boys to pick her up. She has sex with them and sucks their cock. Alternatively, it apparently also is “a term of endearment used between engineering and technical contract job shoppers. These contract personnel travel from job to job, and typically only take the highest paying jobs; however, these same personnel have no problem with uprooting and driving across the country to work frequent, short duration assignments” (Urbandictionary.com)
Dirty Whore: The most perverted whore you can find. (That’s a good thing, right?!) (Urbandictionary.com)
Cock Whore: A cock whore is the ultimate true slut. It doesn’t matter her age or if she’s married, she just can’t get enough hard cock. A cock whore dresses like a slut at all times, letting everyone see her tits, ass and pussy. She doesn’t care about a man’s age, race or if he’s thin or fat, only that he has a hard cock between his legs and that he is willing to stuff one of her holes with it (Urbandictionary.com)
Cock Sucking Whore: A whore who sucks cock, or, from what I could find, a term used to describe someone who seriously pissed you off
Filthy Whore: “A raunchy skank of a cumdump (m) or (f) who whores out every possible bodily orifice for a ridiculous amount of vociferous and usually heinous eye-popping fucking. Having ones mouth, vagina, anus, ears, glass eye. nose, armpits and quite possibly feet slathered with loads of milky funky spunk. Usually consisting of but not limited to: vagrant’s precious bodily fluids, the football teams cream squirts, a visit by the clergy and or a facial and cumbath by a wispy group of hair dressers all named Philip. These unbridled sperm receptacles are usually chock full o’ various unchecked/untreated STDs.” (Urbandictionary.com)
Cheap Whore: “1) One who is in the prostitution business who is either bad at their job or charges little for their services
2) Used by a few to describe someone they hate (the person they hate usually being a girl) who can be classified as either a bitch, slut or just plain stupid.” (Urbandictionary.com)
I know this list will inevitably grow, but it really boils down into either a really positive meaning, or a really negative one. I’m sure we generally hear it used negatively, but behind closed doors, I know many who use it as a term of endearment. I’ve heard “dirty little whore” used a lot between lovers that enjoy exploring and pushing boundaries. They have confidence and trust in one another and there is nothing negative implied at all. On this site, I’m obviously using the term “whore” in a positive sense.
Whorified: One on the road to sexual confidence and freedom. Exploring your sexuality and desires with an open and unashamed view and seeking out a partner or partners who are doing the same. Gaining knowledge and insight into your own psyche while experimenting and trying new things that bring you happiness and ecstasy. Being bold and confident enough to go after what you desire without being weighed down by negative societal views or shaming. Being brave enough to verbalize what you want sexually without being embarrassed. AKA, being a dirty, dirty whore and not giving a shit what anyone says.
The absolute hardest part of getting this site going is deciding how much and what to share. Of the few who are aware of my intentions with this website, not one has failed to bring up precautions that I need to take to stay safe. Wise words indeed but trying to create a persona that is me but not me has been a royal pain in the ass. The truth is, everyone that knows me also knows I am different (to put it mildly/nicely). For whatever reason, I just exude *something* that makes people open up to me and tell me their deepest darkest secrets and at some point I get asked a million questions.
THAT hasn’t gotten me into too much trouble as of yet, so why bother hiding behind a screen pretending to be someone/something I’m not. As a way to cover my ass, how about we all just agree to enjoy the site and not go sociopathic and stalk and/or kill me. Ok?! Seems reasonable.
Now, hopefully with that out of the way, I can actually start writing about what we’re all here for. Sex. Confidence. Kink. Exploration and experimentation. Sounds like a lot more fun eh?
I’m still not exactly sure where to start but I’m pretty good at winging it. Truth is, the topics are endless. I’m not exactly sure where to start because everyone has a different issue or problem that may be huge to them, but may be not be a problem for the next person. A lifetime of experiences and listening to others views on sex takes a toll on everyone which results in inhibitions varying greatly.
Luckily, somewhere along the way of my own sexual brainwashing I learned what a crock of shit it was and just stopped taking it in. I make my own decisions about it now and completely ignore (usually with an eye-roll) anyone who starts preaching what and how sex should be. I’ve talked to so many people about their sex lives that only 1 things remains constant….EVERYONE has something that they want and desire but are too afraid to go after it because “omg, that makes me a pervert.” Fuck that. If what you want doesn’t hurt or ruin someone else’s life…why SHOULDN’T you give yourself the opportunity to try it? Why NOT find a partner who desires the same thing?! Trust me…they are out there.
The happiest people I know are ones that go after what they want. They actively seek out their desires and surround themselves with people who do the same. No, this doesn’t mean you need to go out and tell everyone about your sex life, but it makes sense that if you’re trying to find someone to share your life with, its a GREAT idea to find out if you’re sexually compatible or not. I don’t care what anyone else thinks or says, when I was looking for a long term partner, sex came up before almost anything else. Living a life where you constantly desire something you NEVER get seems completely insane to me. If a great sex life is important to you…work towards making it happen. Don’t waste your time on someone who thinks sex is something reserved for your birthday present once a year.
I’m currently working on some checklists to help in this area. They will be available as print outs very shortly. They’ve been a lot of fun to put together 😉
~Bryony – the Dirty Deviant
So happy to announce that I’ve recently found a great photographer who will be doing boudoir shots of myself and maybe others for this site. I can’t fucking wait! I’ve been told I just LOOK like I have knowledge of open-minded sex practices so I might as well use that. I think it will be a lot of fun and I’ve been saving boudoir shots that I love left and right to give the photographer as examples.
These will be boudoir shots…nothing overtly over the top sexual. Mostly just suggestive and hot as hell. I’m sure it will help give a better feel for who I am and why I think I can help both men and women gain the sexual confidence that they are looking for. Hell, doing these pics might even raise my own confidence a bit. I can’t wait to have the details set up and date set. Will I be nervous? I’m 90% sure I will be somewhat, but that’s half the fun. Pushing through nerves and coming out successful definitely makes you feel more confident in yourself. It’s the small steps really that leave you with the nervous butterflies that in turn end up convincing you that you CAN pull it off and do something you have never done before. I did model once but it wasn’t this style so this will be new to me. We have plans to sneak a couple “Just for the S/O” shots in there as well. What guy doesn’t love getting sexy as hell shots of his lover as a surprise?!